So I think the idea that “someone must have really hurt you” is a short-sided assumption of the deconstruction experience.

It's a fairly common thought among exvangelicals, that belief is not a choice. I decided to address it.

Here's my top 3 reasons you need these communities and how to know its time to move on.

The entrance gate, the ticket in, to evangelical Christianity is not actually LOVE or a God that loves unconditionally. It’s fear and shame

God won't give you anything more than what you can handle. God is allowing this in your life to grow you and teach you. God is love. Love...