It's a fairly common thought among exvangelicals, that belief is not a choice. I decided to address it.

Our identity inside these cultures and belief systems is woven into the passionate drive purpose offers us.

Change is hard shit! It's not for the faint of heart.

The entrance gate, the ticket in, to evangelical Christianity is not actually LOVE or a God that loves unconditionally. It’s fear and shame

Language is powerful. It has been used to communicate, instruct, teach, tell stories, and connect. It can also be used to control.

You retold me my story...but I took my pen back!

I had no idea what gaslighting was or what it meant...until I had lost myself to it.